Get Your Dream Life

I have been working a lot on myself recently, clearing all of the emotional baggage and unhelpful limiting beliefs from the past.

I was doing a wonderful guided meditation a few days ago with a good friend of mine. The meditation took me into a wonderful garden, which was full of beautiful souls.

Just as I walked in, there, right in the middle of MY GARDEN, with a huge silly grin on her face was a person I have been trying to detox from my life!

How dare she invade my beautiful garden and my wonderful meditation!!!!

In the meditation I saw myself forcibly eject her from the garden and put her behind the hedge at the back. However, no matter how much I tried to block her out and to build a bigger and higher hedge, she was still there looking at me. She had a mixture of this silly grin and sadness on her face.

Ggggggrrrrrrrhhhh!!!!!

Needless to say I did not really enjoy my meditation very much. When I finished, I told my friend about the incident and he said some very profound words.

He told I was ot to eject her from the garden, but I was to talk to her and ask her what message she had for me. It might be that she was reflecting back to me something about myself that I was did not like or did not want to see.

Sometimes I really dislike this personal growth stuff!  – Especially when the inward exploration is difficult and uncomfortable, as I knew instantly this inner probing was going to be.

“I want you to write her a letter,” my friend continued, ” and tell her all the reasons that you are grateful for having been in your life and the lessons and gifts she has brought you – as difficult a person she may be and as much as you want her OUT of your life.”

I could feel a huge “procrastination to-do list”  (such as dog walk, email checking, shopping and hundreds of other time wasting exercises) coming on before I tackled this one.

However, I knew he was right and I found some comfort from his final remarks- “Once you have understood the lessons or the gifts, she will just fade out of your life.”

The more I thought about this, the more I realised that this woman does not like herself in anyway shape or form and seems to have gone to great lengths to “abuse” (for want of a better word)  herself in all areas of her life.

She makes strange, ill-thought- out decisions around money, which seem to me to put her in a position of permanent lack. Having done that, she then seems to blame everyone else for her problems and expect her friends or the Universe to bail her out.

The more I thought about her and the things about her that I did not like, the more uncomfortable I became.

I had to admit to myself that I had also done similar things around money and there had been many occasions where I had not been at all kind or loving towards myself.

It would be fair to say I had abused my body with overeating and lack of exercise and had deprived myself of love and fun in a lot of ways.

It became very obvious that she was holding up a mirror to me and reflecting me back to me. They do say that cameras and mirrors don’t  lie. Well, this mirror was not lying!

Once I allowed myself to acknowledge all of this, I wrote it all out in my journal. As the feelings of self-loathing started to surface, I allowed myself to experience them all and kept writing until I could write no more.

I was listening to one of the Abundant Mystic teleseminar series and the lady was talking about Ho’oponopono.

This is a Hawaiian method of healing, reconciliation and forgiveness which consists of 4 short sentences and essentially you heal yourself for your part in this relationship going wrong – or at least that is my understanding of it.

The 4 sentences are:

• I am Sorry
• Please Forgive Me
• Thank You
• I Love You

I had heard of this before and never really felt that I had got much from it, however it seemed totally appropriate at that moment, so I started repeating those 4 sentences over and over, whilst thinking about this woman and also about the “Mirror of Lack of Self Love” that she had held up to me.

It took a while, but I felt the feelings start to release.

I finally released the last remnants of it at a fantastic workshop I attended at the weekend, where I broke an arrow that had one end placed against a block of wood and the point was in the soft part of my throat.

Too me, it was a symbolic release of all that lack of self love that had built up over years.

More on that very shortly!

My friend was right. Once I could acknowledge and release the lack of self love for myself, the woman concerned seems to have faded from my life. She has certainly not invaded any more of my meditations.

Perhaps it really is true that we learn our greatest lessons from the most difficult people in our lives.  I am very grateful to that lady for bringing me these lessons and I wish her peace, love, happiness, health and prosperity in her own life.

we are very fortunate at the moment that the rising Earth energies mean we can clear all this stuff quicker than we have ever done before!

With abundant blessings.

Amanda Goldston

Clear Limiting Beliefs and Blocks to Success

Following on the theme of Clearing Out the Old and Welcoming in the New, there are a few very effective things you can do to make sure that you have well and truly let go of any old stuff that may still be hampering you in your Success efforts today.

We have just had a NEW MOON on 15th January 2010. This was enhanced by a very rare solar eclipse, which unfortunately we were not able to see in Northern Europe.

The NEW MOON is about new beginnings. Having let go of the things that do not serve you, now is the time to set in motion the new plans and dreams for the coming year.

If you are holding on to Anger or Frustration or Resentment or Guilt or Shame or Pain in any Negative form about a person or a situation from the past, then  that may be stopping you from moving forward with your new goals, plans and intentions for 2010.

One incident may be the start of a repeating pattern, where a similar situation has happened on numerous occasions with different people. However, the energy of the situations and the feelings you had about it and yourself will often be very similar.

So, for example, a current situation around a lack of money flow may have a lot to do with unhelpful feelings from experiences in your childhood.

The good news is that this stuff is quite easy to identify and clear. We are also now helped by the Triple auspicious Full Moon that we had on 31^st December 2009 and also by the fact that the energies on the Earth are accelerating.

This means that releasing “old stuff” can be done faster than ever and we can manifest the things of our choosing faster than ever before.

When doing any sort of clearing work, one of the most important things to do is to really allow yourself to get into the FEELING of the matter. The FEELING is even more important than the person or the situation, although that can be a good trigger to get you started.

Get yourself a JOURNAL, which is going to be for your eyes only.

1)     Set an intention that you will allow yourself to quickly and easily identify and release whatever may be holding you back in any area of your life.

2)     Think about something you would like in your life and ask yourself “Why don’t I yet have what I want?” and listen for the answers that are coming. You may want to add onto that “Whose fault is it?” That is often a good question for stirring up old feelings and buried FEELINGS.

3)     As the answers come up, write them down, especially how you FEEL about this situation or any people that are involved. Let yourself really experience those feelings in your body.

4)     Keep writing until you feel those initial feelings start to subside and then notice what is underneath.

5)     Ask yourself “What beliefs do I hold about myself for all this to be true?” The answers will bubble up very quickly.

I started the process in December in a slightly different way. I started with my childhood and simply wrote about my family, my childhood, the experiences of growing up and the main people and situations that had affected me.

Almost immediately I saw a pattern emerging of how I had felt and I could see repetitions of those same feelings right into my adult life today.

These were my perceptions and I am sure my family did not intend for me to react and feel that way.

Very quickly feelings of being unloved, unwanted, not deserving of attention, always being in the way, being a financial burden to people around me began to surface. This was accompanied by feelings of not being listened to, of not matching up to the expectations of my family and a good dose of anger and resentment.

What also began to emerge was not feeling valued by others and subsequently not having valued myself in my working life and personal relationships.

The word that sprang to mind for me was ABUSE.

As a child I had felt powerless and not able to stand up for myself in what might be termed “abusive” situations, where people had shouted at me or criticised me or not supported me.

As an adult, I seemed to attract working situations where I allowed other people to determine my income and whether I would get paid or not and allowed others to take from me and put up with quite intolerable “abusive” situations.

Personal relationships, prior to meeting my wonderful husband Greg, had been very similar. I had put myself in situations where I had agreed to things when I really wanted to run a mile in the opposite direction and had put myself in situations where I had allowed others to “abuse” me or failing that where I could “abuse” myself.

Once I was able to VENT all of this in my JOURNAL, I could then move to the next step.

6)     You can then make a choice as to whether you want to hang onto those feelings or whether you want to let them go. It really is that simple.

If there are other people involved, you probably won’t be able to change them or their attitude, although once you start clearing work on yourself, you may well be very surprised at the effect it has on other people. I know I was!

You cannot change the events of the past; however you can choose whether or not you want to carry around the emotional pain of those events any longer.

7)     Burn the Journals or get rid of them. Once you have released those feelings, you don’t really want to go back over them.

8)     Clear away any residual with some gentle relaxations and meditations. The Pen and Paper exercises and the meditations work very well together because they can help to clear and release even the deepest rooted beliefs. Sometimes you may not want to bring old stuff into your awareness and that is absolutely fine or it may be that some of the memories require professional help to deal with. If that is the case, seek the help you need.

I have been helping people to identify and clear limiting beliefs for some time now, with some fantastic successes, ranging from Becky who cleared her fear in order to accomplish her dream of skydiving, to Jayne who changed careers from a prison officer to a hypnotherapist to many others who have cleared away limiting beliefs in order to do magical things in their lives.

I have put together a short video for you that explains a bit more about Limiting Beliefs and how to identify and Clear them.

I have put together a very special package of ALL of my most powerful CLEARING materials, including the audios from my Personal CHANGING LIVES COACHING PROGRAMME, my best-selling CLEAR LIMITING BELIEFS AUDIO RELAXTION, as well as a powerful meditation to clear unhelpful beliefs that have come down through the generations.

For more information, please check out the links below.

Clear Limiting Beliefs NOW!

Take advantage of the fast moving energies at the moment to quickly and easily clear away anything that does not serve you, so you can set your Intentions for 2010 and confidently expect them to come to you, easily and effortlessly, without being hampered by the lingering effects of old, non-serving stuff.

Wipe the slate clean and stride confidently into the new decade!

With abundant blessings.

Amanda Goldston

Out With The Old and In With The New

Well, as 2009 draws to a close, this is a time for reflection on the year that has gone and for celebration of the New Year to come.

2009 has certainly been a challenging year for the Goldston family. We seem to have struggled with money all year. It has been a year of really tightening the purse strings and reducing the household budget to a minimum.

Yet we have survived. We are still all here to tell the tale. Interestingly, although we seem to have had an almost day to day existence, money seems to have always showed up exactly as we have needed it.

Having said that, I was looking back through the diary and I have been quite amazed at how much we have done on a shoestring budget.

There have been several cinema trips to see great films (in the UK, Orange mobile phone network do a 2-4-1 offer on all cinema tickets on a Wednesday), we have had picnics and fantastic dog walks, the girls have done dancing and trampolining, dancing and various other activities with home education groups and a fantastic trip to see an outdoor theatre production of “Wind in the Willows” – completed, quite naturally, under the torrential rain of British Summer!

The Italian student who was staying with us at the time really could not quite see the appeal of shaking with the cold and trying to eat soggy sandwiches and even soggier salad!

Money Lessons

So, what have we learnt from all this? I think the biggest thing has been far better money management. We have managed on the cash that we have had at any given moment and we have had to plan very carefully what we have bought and whether we really desperately needed “it”, whatever that might be.

In some senses, we have stopped dreaming and wanting and in other senses, we have really had to be very clear on priorities. I think it has taught all of us to be more prudent.

At times it has been quite a temptation to say the fatal dream-killing phrase- “No, we can’t afford it!” and sometimes it has been a struggle to focus on “how can we do that?” If something has been REALLY important, then it has happened- somehow, by hook or by crook, with a good dose of Universal Divine intervention from time to time!

There has been a lot greater co-operation between us as a family as we have worked together to make something happen – and then made sure that we have really enjoyed it.

YES TO

During December, we started to focus on what we could say YES to. A lot of these were quite simple things, such as all bills being paid easily, buying some Christmas presents, phone top-ups, an enjoyable Christmas Carol service, fun and laughter in the house, paying for children’s exams, finding gorgeous advent calendars and catching up with bills from the previous month.

I have to say this worked remarkably well and we have had great satisfaction from crossing things off the list as we have been able to do them.

During December I have been really looking at myself and wondering what I can do to turn all of this around. Focusing on what we can say YES TO and focusing on the more positive aspects of life has certainly helped.

Toxic People

I also began to review the people that I have spent a lot of time with over the last year and noticed that my financial problems seemed to mirror theirs and their problems seemed to mirror mine. So, it was probably a mutual reflection of lack mentality!

However I also started to observe how I felt when I had finished conversations with and mostly we had gone round and round in negative stuff and I felt pretty rotten. I decided I needed to have a “negative, draining people detox” and that has been one of the hardest things I have done this year!

I have had to have a really good look inside myself and look at the beliefs I am holding about myself, money, abundance, opportunities and life in general because those beliefs are reflected in the people and opportunities I have attracted into my life.

Some of it has not been very pretty!

I have been very fortunate to have a very wise teacher come into my life in December and I will tell you more about him in due course.

Healing, Releasing and Cleansing

He is taking me through a programme of feeling-based healing and clearing and it is very long overdue!

I have been busy journaling about my childhood and my adolescence and things that made me angry and upset, as well as how I felt about absolutely everything.

So far I am on my fourth journal book!

I have done these kinds of exercises before, yet somehow they were intellectual exercises.  I had never really got in touch with the deep-rooted feelings of anger, resentment, feeling unwanted and unloved and abandoned and all the other feelings of inadequacy and not being worthy or deserving of anything wonderful in life.

This is actually a very therapeutic exercise to do and I would highly recommend it for getting rid of old, unhelpful beliefs and stuff that you really don’t need.

It is important to get in touch with the feelings and allow yourself to actually feel them. You may find that thinking of a particular person or a situation will trigger off all the memories. The feelings around that event are more important than the event itself.

Let yourself VENT in your journal!

Whatever you wanted to say to the person or people involved at the time, say it in your journal, with every choice expletive you can think of! This journal is for your eyes only and you will probably want to burn it when you have finished.

One person from my childhood took up several dozen pages of my 30 years of suppressed venom! As I wrote I felt the anger and pain increase and it is important to keep writing and express every last ounce of it, as best you can in words.

Once I had exhausted myself and my choice of words, the anger started to subside and I actually began to feel a sense of compassion and understanding for why they acted liked they did. Yes, that totally blew me away!

I came to realise that I could not change what had happened and that person will probably never explore themselves enough to make any changes. However, I do not need to carry around that pain any longer as it does not serve me and has probably greatly contributed to my weight problems over the years. No, that does not mean I have to like that person, however I can now separate me from them!

It is so powerful to clear away old stuff from the past. It is only by freeing ourselves from the baggage of the past that we can then really make contact with those Higher Aspects of ourselves, such as intuition, inspiration and creativity.

Let Go of What DOES NOT SERVE You

I have been helping other people to clear limiting beliefs for some time and I now realise that where we have had the greatest breakthroughs has been where people have allowed themselves to clear away the negative feelings behind the beliefs, rather than it being merely a superficial, intellectual, surface exploration.

Once I started to open myself up to letting go of things that do not serve me, some interesting questions started to emerge, such as “Why I am holding onto the stress of worrying about debts and money and the mortgage and whether or not we are going to lose to house and whether we need to go down the bankruptcy route?” and “How does that really serve me other than to block off my creativity and cause me to be irritable and bad tempered?”

Money and Home

The answer is that none of that serves me. Maybe bankruptcy is the ultimate release, the ultimate starting again and perhaps it is time to let go of this old house that needs a lot of money spending on it in a top-to-bottom renovation.

Once I came to a place of being willing to totally let go and surrender myself to the Highest and Best Outcome, I felt a sense of calm and peace come over me and options started to present themselves. Once I had come to terms with what might be the worst possible eventuality, other possibilities started to pop in my head and I found myself much calmer as I was writing letters to banks and other hassling people.

Death of My Nan

Just before Christmas, my beloved Nan died, after a long illness and I can tell you, it is no fun when you are wrapping Christmas presents and trying to get into the Christmas Spirit, with cheesy Christmas songs playing wherever you go, when you feel like your heart is breaking!

Nan has had pages and pages devoted to her in my journal as I have tried to come to terms with the very mixed feelings I had about her and her life. Up until about 10 years ago, she was an incredibly active lady. She still cooked and cleaned and looked after the children, as well as flying half way round the world (twice) to see her other daughter and family.

She was a total inspiration, with huge amounts of energy and time for everyone. She lived life to the full and when she felt tired, she sat down for a little nap.

On Christmas Day 2000, she fell in the bath and cracked her fibula bone at the top of her knee. She spent a few weeks with a splint and never walked unaided again after that. It was as though she gave up on life and seemed to want nothing more than to sit in her chair and have everyone take care of her.

It was so sad to see this once vibrant woman deteriorate over that time. She went into a nursing home in December 2001 and in time, her not wanting to do anything turned into her being totally unable to do anything and her health deteriorated considerably, with this last year being the very worst.

Inspiration

I remember her as one of the biggest inspirations of my childhood. She was so strong and so capable, yet always had welcoming arms for a big hug.

She was the only person that I felt was a stable, consistent support for me as I was growing. She never once judged my dreams or told me that something was not possible. Although her comments were often a rather non-committal, “that’s nice, dear” there was never any criticism or lack of encouragement.

She calmly took everything in her stride, even when I shouted at my Grandad for his lack of patience with teaching me to drive or my temper or my ingratitude!

There were always welcoming arms and a nice cup of tea and a biscuit or a piece of home-made cake to make anything better – from bruised knees to a broken heart!

Life and Death really does go in cycles

Nanny died on 21^st December 2009 and on 23^rd December 2009, my cousin’s wife gave birth to a baby boy! Nan’s funeral is on New Year’s Eve, 14 years to the day when my Grandad, her husband died, when I was pregnant with my second daughter!

Blessings and Abundance

As 2009 draws to an end, we can close the chapter on the highs and lows of that year and look forward to 2010. This is a year where I am going to concentrating much more on really experiencing the FEELING of everything I am doing.

As I have been clearing out the old stuff, I have realised how truly blessed I am with a wonderful family, a fantastic husband, amazing kids (and a mad rottweiler that totally fits in with the family!) and how much real abundance I have in my life.

Intentions and Focus for 2010

In 2010 I shall be focusing on things which give me real pleasure and are so much fun to do, such as writing and creating tarot based products. I have got loads of ideas that I am working on.

I have decided to give the Universe some instructions to bring me the exact right people who can help with the marketing and promotion of my products and attracting film makers and TV people to me.

This can free me up to do what I love to do, which is to CREATE!

In 2010 I am going to be working to my strengths and delegating the rest to people who love those things, so that we can create win-win situations for everyone.

As Joseph Campbell said, “Follow Your Bliss!” and that is what I am going to be doing in 2010.

Wishing you a wonderful New Year and a fantastic 2010.

With abundant blessings.

Amanda Goldston

Tarot Author and Coach

I made a Mind Movie last week with some of my short term goals, which you can see on the post below.

They were not goals that I would consider to be particularly huge. However they are a step forward from where I am now.

I started to watch the video repeatedly and a very interesting thing began to happen.

And it was NOT the massive success I desired.

As I watched the video, I started to hear a little voice in my head asking me some very unhelpful questions, such as “Why are you bothering?”, “You won’t do that?” “You’ve done all this goal setting stuff before, you don’t really believe any of it is going to happen, so what’s the point?”

As I started hearing this stuff coming up, I realised it was old limiting beliefs and thought patterns, that I thought I had long since cleared, that were making their presence felt.

Hmm, interesting.

I felt so inspired by my Mind Movie, yet at the same time, felt a mounting sense of frustration and almost powerlessness with it.

Maybe all this old junk about my self worth, my value, my deservedness to have money and abundance in my life, was what was stopping me from allowing it to come into my life?

I came to the conclusion that it was high time I did something about it. I pulled out my material on Clearing Limiting Beliefs and blocks to Success and started working with it. In under a week I attracted in nearly £1000 ($1500) of unexpected income!

It may be that you also have some old, unhelpful limiting beliefs lurking about, which are wrecking havoc with your success plan.

I have made a short video for you explaining how to quickly identify and clear any limiting beliefs, so that when you make your Mind Movie with your goals, you can allow the abundance to come into your life in double-quick time.

Clear Limiting Beliefs

You can find our more about quickly and easily identifying and clearing Limiting Beliefs by clicking the link below.

Clear Limiting Beliefs NOW!

With abundant blessings.
Amanda Goldston

Hi all,

I am now officially launching Changing Lives Coaching.

I have been truly amazed at the breakthroughs my clients have been having over the last few weeks.

I have also been amazed at the heart-felt true PASSIONS that have been squashed into a corner, on the basis of “I’ll do what I really LOVE, when I have made some money and got some more time etc… etc… etc…”

The more PEACE, JOY, LOVE and FUN we can bring into our lives TODAY, the more we can do things that make our heart sing, the more abundance we can attract into our lives.

To book your “Block Busting” Changing Lives Coaching Programme, and Identify and Clear a Major Block to Success in under 2 hours

please check out my website at www.ChangingLivesCoaching.com

Yes, it really can be done!

With abundant blessings.
Amanda Goldston.
Shining Light Abundance Guide

Hi all,

Thank you to everyone who helped with with questionnaire about Coaching and Clearing a Major Limiting Belief in under 2 hours.

Your feedback and suggestions were much appreciated.

I have been getting some fantastic results. The service will be launching officially at the end of this week. This is to coincide with the Chinese New Year on 7th February and a solar eclipse on the New Moon also on the 7th February.

Changing Lives Coaching

We are going into the Chinese Year of the Rat, which is the first animal in the Chinese zodiac, and is all about New Beginnings.

With all of those factors combined, it is a terrific time for all of us to be starting new projects.

2 important factors.

When you surge forward with those new projects, there are two vitally important things to remember:

1) Do something that you really love and are totally passionate about. A good test of this is, a) how enthusiastically do you talk about the subject? and b) how long could you talk to a willing listener about it before you got bored? (hours, weeks. months?)

2) Value yourself, your products and services. Put a price tag on them that you really feel they are worth, in terms of the value that people receive. Ignore those people who tell you that your price is too high or people have no money or can’t afford those prices or other lack based comments.

We live in an abundant Universe. There is more than enough to go around for everyone.

Use these powerful astrological energies to propel yourself forward. Then combine that with some strategic business planning and Inspired Action and you can be well on your way to creating 2008 as your best year yet.

With abundant blessings.
Amanda Goldston
ChangingLivesCoaching

Hi all,

Can I ask your help please?

I have been working with numerous people with my “Limiting Belief Buster” coaching process and have had some terrific results.

Yes, it is possible to identify and COMPLETELY clear a major limiting belief or block to money and success in under 2 hours.

You can read Greg’s story in the post below.

My friend, Pat, has just told me he is now much more future- oriented instead of being stuck in the past and business seems to be flowing to him.

I have had some interesting feedback, particularly around structuring the session (s) and I would like to ask your views.

There are 2 distinct parts to it. The first being to identify and clear ONE major Limiting Belief and the second is moving forward from that.

If you were going to clear a major block money and success in your life, would you prefer to do that:

1) In 1 x intense 2 hour blast, with perhaps a 20- 30 minute follow up within a week?
3) In 2 shorter sessions of 45 minutes – 1 hour each with a few days gap and perhaps a 3rd shorter follow up session within a week of the 2nd session?
3) Take the slower route and work with it over a period of time, say 20-30 minutes per week over a period of 3-4 weeks?

4) Once the block was cleared, would you want ongoing support in the form of:
a) weekly or monthly check- in coaching sessions?
b) monthly teleseminars or webinars?
c) online resource centre?
d) Other?

I am working on pricing for the package at the moment.
Your feedback and comments would be much appreciated.
With abundant blessings.
Amanda Goldston

Hi all,

I have to say, I have quite staggered by the changes in Greg since we did a “Limiting Belief Shifting” session last weekend.

I suppose the effectiveness of any coaching can only really be measured by the new and different ways of being, and new action habits that you see in someone over the following days and weeks.

Greg got up the following day an immediately checked out a stock photo agency, that he has been procrastinating with for months. He then made the decision that it was not right for him at this time because of the restrictive clauses in the terms.

He has since ordered and categorised all of his 10,000+ photographs, so that he knows exactly where they all are. He has never done that before!

That means he can immediately lay his hands on any photograph for any situation, whether that is for a competition, a magazine submission or work for me.

That action alone means the difference between being able to generate an income from his photographs and constantly missing deadlines for things because he couldn’t find the photographs he was looking for.

He has seemed much more confident in himself and more focused on taking his photography forward.

Clear a long-standing Limiting Belief or Block in 2-3 hours.

I have refined the process and tested it on several other people. I have come to the conclusion that a major block can be identified and cleared PERMANENTLY in about 2-3 hours, providing of course, that a person is ready and willing to release that block and to move forward from.

I will be offering 1-2-1 coaching with this very shortly. This will be via telephone, in person (for those of you local to me in UK) and by Skype.

That in itself, is overcoming a major limiting belief for me to do that. I have been working with people doing Clearings for nearly 4 years now, in one way shape or form.

Have a great day.
With abundant blessings.
Amanda Goldston

Hi all,

Recently I have been looking into my beliefs system, particularly around money, and I have noticed several recurring themes where me and money are concerned.

Recurring Patterns

1) The balance of the scales seemed to be tipped in favour of “money going out”, rather than money coming in.
2) I seemed to be a “money- repellant” and had this great desire to get rid of it as fast as I possibly could.
3) As expenses reduced, so did income.
4) I seemed to be at my most creative when there was absolutely nothing coming in.
5) I seemed to get some perverse enjoyment- almost satisfaction- in wallowing around in negative debt stuff.

I have noticed this for a while and it is only recently that I have been really motivated to explore it and do something about it. I also want to ride the tide of change that is happening astrologically now at the beginning of 2008.

What I noticed when I looked at all this stuff, was that none of it made any sense to me. It was not logical. It was completely contrary to all my goals and intentions and dreams.

I have explored this issue before, yet never really got to the real core it. I know that because my behaviour patterns and results were not changing.

Clearing Limiting Beliefs

Last year I had a coaching session with a coach who specialises in clearing limiting beliefs. I was quite amazed at the results of the session and it triggered off an amazing process of self discovery for me.
She identified some pretty deep-rooted beliefs that I was holding about myself, money, rich people, wealthy people, business and business people and the sacrifices that I thought rich people made in order to have money.

As we were doing the session, I got a picture in my head of a wealthy merchant who was looking sadly down at a great pile of gold coins. He looked like someone from the Tudor times in England (1400 and 1500s).

I knew immediately that was somewhere I would need to revisit on my own to get the full story of what had happened at that point, where I had made the decisions and created the beliefs that I felt were holding me back today.

Love or Money.
What I found out was that I had made a choice between Love or Money, and felt that I could not have both. I have seen myself repeat that pattern frequently.

I finished it off myself with a massive release, huge amounts of tears and a feeling of relief.

I was able to go back to that place and whilst I did not change the decision, I was able to pour healing and golden light into it.

Timeline Healing

I listened to a terrific meditation from my good friend Matt Clarkson of Spiritual Growth Monthly who has a brilliant timeline meditation for clearing limiting beliefs.

With that meditation I learnt how to look for the Positive Intentions behind that action and to carry those positive learnings with me, right into the present day.

These are a few terrific resources I have used. However you can create your own and you can do your own clearing, if you want and/or need to.

Clearing Greg’s biggest block.
Greg, my husband and I, were talking about these experiences and got talking about his PROCRASTINATION, his INABILITY to FINISH THINGS and his UNWILLINGNESS to really SHOW his amazing photographs to the world and we ended up in a spontaneous coaching/healing session.

Sometimes if you talk honestly about your situation to a friend, who is really listening, you can identify a lot of beliefs just in the words that you use. Greg and I switched on the little voice recorder and I immediately heard him use a lot of “should, have to, need to” type of words.

As he was talking, he mentioned “fear of failure”. I questioned him on this to see whether that was the case or whether it was a fear of “massive success”.

The Artist.
As he was talking, I got a picture of him as a artist, painting a stunning picture and then being deceived by a wealthy man. The man had commissioned the picture and agreed a price and then told Greg that it was absolute rubbish and offered to pay him only a fraction of the agreed price and the picture’s true worth.

Greg had believed him and had accepted the reduced money. Only an hour before, Greg had the viewed the picture as the pinnacle of his creativity and this was the finest work he was capable of producing.

That had been the beginning of the end for Greg at that time. He could never value his work or himself again. He always created magnificent stuff and believing neither he, as an artist, or his work was “not good enough” gave it all away and allowed people to walk all over him.

We applied some of the same healing processes and meditations.

Whilst we have not yet brought in mega-bucks as a result of this, I have seen a distinct change in Greg. He is more focused and has completed some tasks he has been putting off for some time.

Time for Clearing.
The energetic vibration of the whole Earth is speeding up and clearing old, non-serving stuff has never been quicker or easier. There are Universal forces around, which are helping with that process.

Mostly, all you need to do is to be willing to clear stuff that does not serve you and ask for assistance. It can literally be that quick and simple.

Greg’s process took about 2 hours in total and we have cleared a BIGGIE!

I hope you have found something useful here.

Your methods for Clearing Limiting Beliefs.
If you have successfully cleared limiting beliefs and blocks around money and success, I would love to hear what you did and what resources have worked for you.
Please share them or drop me a line.

With abundant blessings.
Amanda Goldston.